Any significant change in any of the life aspects? How has that change affected you and your husband? Any conflicts going on between you both? Have sexual preferences changed in any way for both of you? I would appreciate if you take time to introspect on what has changed in the last two years of your marriage. It’s difficult for you to keep fighting the urge to end this. I know two years is a long time to maintain patience. Your husband probably enjoys self-stimulation more. Sometimes, people enjoy self-pleasuring over love making even though love making with their spouse is satisfying and enjoyable. He may not be meaning to hurt you on purpose. This may not be because of you, and I would advise you not to blame yourself for it. The reason for your husband’s behaviour to prefer watching porn to satisfy him rather than making love with you is unclear. We all have the need to be loved physically and get accepted as we are. Rejection is very difficult to handle, especially sexual. I can imagine that hearing this statement and not having any physical intimacy for long can lead to a feeling of rejection, frustration, and inadequacy. It’s natural for you to feel undesirable and upset by his statements and ignorance of your feelings. I understand that your husband’s behaviour is confusing as your bond of friendship seems good and strong with him. Arva Shikari: Thank you for sharing your query with us. What should I do to bring back everything to normal? Unfortunately, he prefers to watch porn to satisfy himself. When I asked him the reason, he simply said that he does not find me attractive now. From past two years, we did not have sex even once. We are good friends but there is one place where I am unable to understand him. Question: I have been married for nine years, and my husband and I share a great compatibility.
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